^^^ Ummm...I've yet to meet these women...And oh dear, but surely you weren't her first I imagine.
From my experience there is a correct way it could bend, but it never goes that way. And when it doesn't go that way. It doesn't work.
Buy yay now there's a pill! Possible side effects are only chronic diarrhea, AIDS, diabetes, blindess and sometimes even death! totally made that up without research lol.